Online Sexual Addiction

Online sexual addictions are a large part of internet addiction.  A cyber sexual addiction is the inability to control compulsively seeking out any online sexual activity despite negative consequences. Online sexual activity can be anything that provides sexuality for the purpose of recreation, entertainment, exploration, support, education, commerce, and/ or seeking out sexual partners [1].

A person who has an online sexual addiction will display characteristics that are common in all internet addictions.  Those are a preoccupation with the internet, they display tolerance over time, they try to stop but they cannot, and show symptoms of withdrawal when they try to stop using the internet.  People addicted to the internet often lose interest in activities that they used to enjoy, lie about the time they spend on the internet, and become socially withdrawn. 

An internet sex addiction is different from internet infidelity.  An internet sex addiction displays the characteristics described above.  Individuals with an internet sex addiction typically have poor interpersonal relationships and they don’t usually have personal thoughts or feeling toward their online sexual activities.  An internet sexual addiction may involve others in a chat room, but it is not about forming relationships.  An internet sex addiction is more about spending a lot of time on the internet searching and viewing online sexual activity.

Internet infidelity involves a relationship with another person in secret behind the back of another partner.  Internet infidelity is not an internet addiction.  It is using the internet to cheat on your partner.  It is less about the time spent online and more about the secret relationship.

[1] Jones, Kathryn, E., and Katherine, M. Hertlein. "Four Key Dimensions For Distinguishing Internet Infidelity From Internet And Sex Addiction: Concepts And Clinical Application." American Journal Of Family Therapy 40.2 (2012): 115-125. CINAHL Plus with Full Text. Web. 21 Mar. 2013.

The Firm's Dilemma

Social media addiction has positive and negative effects in the business world. Firm's globally gain from social media by reaching out to new prospective buyers. It can allow businesses to recognize future demand and to react to it timely.

Advertising is the cash cow for social media networks. To understand how firms around the world mutually benefit from these advertisements, we must understand the concept of the social capital theory. Social capital is the perceived trustworhiness of information shared amongst members of social communities (virtual in our case). Businesses are taking advantage of the social media networks' abilities to build a strong social capital for themselves.

CRM is a large asset to the firm which can benefit directly from positive social capital. Social media greatly enhances a firm's ability to learn how the customer feels about their products or services. This advantage can allow the firm to quickly adapt to any inefficiencies in it's services. This can be very important because it is cheaper to retain a customer than it is to gain a new one.

Social media can be a double-edged sword for the firm, unfortunately. Firm's productivity can suffer from worker's distractions due to their social media addictions. Breaches of companies'  online securitiy has occurred as well, because of careless sharing of information across social media networks. The aggregate misuse of social medias in the workplace can be detrimental to a firm.

Businesses must learn to find a middle ground with social media usage for the future because it's usage is increasing enormously.While firm's can gain revenues from social media, it can lose revenues from distractions in the workplace as well.


ProCon.org."Are Social Networking Sites Good For Our Society?" ProCon.org.(12 Dec. 2012): Web. 2 Mar. 2013. http://www.procon.org/headline.php?headlineID=005134.

Rodriguez, Michael, Robert M. Peterson, and Vijaykumar Krishnan. "Social Media's Influence On Business-To-Business Sales Performance." Journal of Personal Selling & Sales Management. 32.3 (2012): 365-378. Business Source Complete. Web. 1 Mar. 2013. http://ehis.ebscohost.com.librarylink.uncc.edu/eds/pdfviewer/pdfviewer?sid=b46fe0c8-561a-4d0d-af9d-c5c9925d9168%40sessionmgr15&vid=6&hid=17.

Could it be unavoidable?

Our generation is full of stuff that people from back in the day could of never imagined having. Back then, it was the old school landlines to communicate via phone. Now we have smart phones, video conferencing, etc. Back then, people would purchase a news paper to know whats going on with the world, and now there are several websites to just look up news such as CNN. For how technology has advanced, we might are naturally addicted to using the internet.

Many companies around the world are connected by the use of the internet. Video conferencing has to be a big part of it. Instead of having to pay for a plane ticket to go to a meeting in China with other executives, you can just set up a video conference from where you are with the use of a computer and a webcam. Most of the other communication is via email. Yeah, you could just text another executive, however, to some, its just not professional.

How do you pay your bills? If you didn't say via internet, your probably lying. What about checking your bank statements other than the statements you receive in the mailbox? You are using the internet. What about certain shopping? I personally look for deals online all the time and get my items delivered to my door.

The biggest point here is what would we be without the internet? We are, in a way, uncontrollably addicted to the internet because it remains in existence, unless if we actually have a zombie apocalypse one of these days when we would have to take other matters into our own hands to stay alive. Ultimately, it is ok if you are addicted to the internet. There is no escape at this point. Technology will continue to advance and were just going to want more of it because it's cool.

It Takes a Village                           March 13, 2013

Do we need to worry about our children’s Internet habits?  According to Matthew Edlund, MD, the answer is yes.  Dr. Edlund puts forth some disturbing results from a Chinese study of 14-21 year olds indicating that Internet addiction can actually change human brains in the same way that drug addiction and gambling do.[1]

In this study of adolescents, MRI’s demonstrated decreased gray matter in the areas of the brain that control decision making and emotion.  White matter, which connects different areas of the brain, appeared disrupted just as it does for those who abuse alcohol and drugs.  This is scary stuff.  It makes you wonder if the changes are permanent.

When it comes right down to it, parents are the ones that must take responsibility by becoming aware, and staying aware, of how much time their children are sitting in front of a computer screen.  The American Academy of Pediatricians recommends no more than 2 hours of TV and/or computer screen time a day.[2]  How many parents are even aware of this recommendation?

We live in a different world today than we did just a short 5 years ago.  Kids who are ‘plugged in’ for too many hours of the day can experience depression, anxiety and nervousness.  Many of them have trouble staying away from the Net even when they try.

I see the present as a time when teachers, parents, grandparents, and even friends will need to be educated about this potentially damaging habit that some of our kids have developed.  The Internet has brought innumerable positives to the general public, but at the same time, overuse has been shown to create problems.  Because we have the ability to ‘log on’ anytime, anywhere, without any controls in place, the possibility for abuse exists.  The temptation for instant gratification that is satisfied by ‘Netting up’ any time of the day or night has proven to be too much for some people to handle.

Guidelines for TV and Internet use should be incorporated into doctors’ plans of care for every office visit our kids make to their Pediatricians.  It has to become an important and essential topic of communication between parents and their children’s physicians if we hope to control the Internet habit.

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[1] “The Kids Can’t Stop: Is Internet Addiction Real?” Psychology Today. n.d. Web. 12 Jan. 2010. http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-power-rest/201201/the-kids-cant-stop-is-internet-addiction-real

[2] “Teen Depression Linked to Internet Overuse”. US News. n.d. Web 5 Aug. 2010. http://health.usnews.com/health-news/blogs/on-parenting/2010/08/05/teen-depression-linked-to-internet-overuse

Internet Addiction, is it a Disorder?

Internet addiction is a disorder that still requires a lot of investigation. Many believe that internet addiction disorder should be listed  as a diagnosis in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition (DSM-V).  Many also disagree that internet addiction is a diagnosis.  They argue that internet addiction is caused by another underlying condition.

Internet addiction is defined by Dr. Weinstein and Dr .Lejoyeux as excessive or poorly controlled preoccupations, urges, or behavior regarding the internet use that leads to impairment or distress.  There are at least three subtypes of internet addiction: gaming, cybersex, and email or text messaging.  Internet addiction and all three of its subtypes have the features of withdrawal, tolerance, and negative repercussions.  Withdrawal systems that are associated with internet addiction are sweating, nausea, anger, and irritability.  People with internet addiction will show signs of tolerance by justifying the purchase of  the latest and greatest computer equipment or finding more time to spend on the internet.  Some of the negative repercussions may be social isolation, poor performance at work or at school, inability to keep appointments, and fatigue. 

There are three different proposed models for classifying internet addiction.  Those who think that internet addiction should be included as a separate disorder believe that it should be listed as a separate disorder under the non specified impulse-control disorder.  Some researchers believe that internet addiction should not be listed as a separate disorder and that it is an impulse-control disorder that is on the obsessive-compulsive spectrum.  Brain imaging and pharmacological treatment studies support this argument.  The third proposed model would be that internet addiction is a behavioral addiction.  Psychiatrists believe that it is part of a behavioral addiction because of the adverse consequences, withdrawal, and tolerance that are typical attributes of a behavioral addiction.

I think it will be interesting when more information and studies are done on internet addiction.  From the information that I have read, internet addiction is a lot like a drug addiction.  I thought it was very strange that people who have an internet addiction suffer from withdrawal symptoms like nausea, sweating, and anger.  Before my research on the topic, I assumed that internet addiction was just caused by a misuse of time.  I thought that it would only cause social problems and issues with school and work.  I did not realize that some suffer physical symptoms from internet addiction.


1.  Pies, R. (2009). Should DSM-V designate "Internet addiction" a mental disorder?. Psychiatry (1550-5952), 6(2), 31-37.

2.  Weinstein, A., & Lejoyeux, M. (2010). Internet Addiction or Excessive Internet Use. American Journal Of Drug & Alcohol Abuse, 36(5), 277-283.

Are Social Media Networks Addictive?

            The introduction of Web 2.0 internet services is enabling people to collaborate and interact with each other by creating and transferring user-generated content online. This has paved the way for exponential growth in the use of social media. Many advocates of social networking will say that it enriches peoples’ lives by giving them the opportunity to sustain or improve current relationships as well as help create new relationships. Social networking is known to help shy people make friends and also help the elderly stay connected. Social media has profoundly benefited business and customer relationships as well as the healthcare and patient relationship.

There are, as a result, studies which have noted addictions to social media sites. One such study conducted in Mexico, for example, linked low self-esteem and depression with social networking addiction, noting that individuals with an inability to interact socially in the real world are enabled virtually to socialize through social media. The socially inept are therefore thought to have an increased vulnerability to addictions involving social networking.

Social media addictions are also known to inhibit employee activity. Facebook Taiwan is king of social networking in Taiwan, largely due to the introduction of “Happy Farm”, a social network game. Firms now deny access to Facebook Taiwan at work, yet there are still instances of workers losing their jobs regarding banned Facebook usage. This indicates a social networking addiction so intense, employees are willing to disregard work ethics and compromise their jobs.

            It would be easy to assume that people would inevitably fall victim to an addiction to these social media networks. Research on the matter has, however, been deemed insufficient for inclusion into the DSM V (fifth edition of the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders).

With the rapid expansion of social media usage, researchers will certainly have plenty of data to record regarding social networking addiction. It is a matter of time until this addiction is accepted as a behavioral addiction in the DSM. American usage of social media networks nearly doubled to 50% between 2008 and 2011, ensuring the U.S. will have no shortage of new social networking addicts in the future.

 

Cheng, JMS, et al. “Social Media Usage and Work Values: The Example of Facebook in    Taiwan.” Social Behavior and Personality 40.2 (2012): 195-200. Social Sciences Citation Index. Web. 28 Feb 2013. http://ehis.ebscohost.com.librarylink.uncc.edu/eds/pdfviewer?sid=a2c55eda-ef64-4e48-9c72-66dba0c9cfd2%40sessionmgr10&vid=4&hid=17

Pamoukaghlian, Veronica. “Social Network Addiction-A Scientific No Man’s Land?” Brain Blogger. (7 Jan 2011): Web. 25 Feb. 2013. http://brainblogger.com/2011/01/07/social-network-addiction-a-scientific-no-mans-land/

ProCon.org.”Are Social Networking Sites Good For Our Society?” ProCon.org. (12 Dec. 2012): Web. 2 Mar. 2013. http://www.procon.org/headline.php?headlineID=005134

How addicted to the internet are you?

Other than the fact that we have certain addictions, who thought that we would be capable of being addicted to the internet? We’ll look at you now when you are mid way through the day at work in your office, not even knowing how much of your time you have been on the internet.
   
Now, sometimes being on the internet at an employer is for good reason, such as communicating to other branches of the business or suppliers, retailers, etc via email. Maybe, some of the transactions that must be done is through the internet.

The internet does have its advantages for a business. Everything is done faster than ever before. Businesses can pretty much connect worldwide for a business. However, this privilege can have its nasty downturn on a business because there is so much out there.

It can come to a time, you are on the computer at work and then your boss comes in to drop off something and you immediately hit the exit button on the page you had pulled up to look like you were working, or you might be too slow and get caught. Imagine if the business had visitor such as stock holders come by, they would say to hell with putting my money for this company if this is how things run here.

The most popular distraction would have to be social networks. how else would you communicate with someone during work? You could with a cell phone, however, it might be company policy to not use your cellphone at all other than business purposes. So when you have your own desk, you have a computer, so then you have the internet.

Outside the office, it can even get worse, especially in a production floor like one that I worked for after my senior year in high school before I left for UNCC. You would imagine how easy it is to access the internet now and days, especially since technology has progressed so much. There was a time when cell phones were flip phones and now we have cellphones that do almost EVERYTHING! I was working at a plastic recycling plant on the production floor, and there were about 10 occasions that could of resulted in forklift accidents due to the use of a cellphone to check their facebook notifications. Others that did the same would slow down production.

What is being done in the office is the computers would be equipped with content filter software to prevent employees from being able to access certain websites that doesnt relate to work. Where I was at, there are many parts of the building that is designed to block cellphone signal so that the use of a cellphone is diminished. It didnt workout so well since the managers on the floor couldnt communicate with the managers in the office so now the plant is equipped with security cameras.

So a crazy thought of wondering if you’re addicted to the internet, you might want to find out for yourself.